I liked this:
"Harbaugh has a policy of having the winners of practice competitions run extra sprints. That came when a friend told him about the Navy captain who uses the same system to train SEALs at Coronado Island "because they've earned the right to get better." More work because they earned it. Totally different mindset from normal.
Be the leader everyone is looking for. Build others up. Share your successes. Show them what you've had to overcome. Give them hope and opportunity. Live by extreme example and lead the pack.